Its funny when someone assumes that you are feeling a certain way, when you are not even in that state. But whats more ironic is that it makes you think if you really are feeling that way. And then this confusion starts to twirl in your stomach and make you ache just a little, because you feel useless as you are not even able to feel "correctly".
Why does this happen? Personally for me, its due to expectations.
Expectations are tricky. They allow growth and development for yourself; like setting a goal and expecting to achieve it. But what it also does is that it fools your mind in thinking that you can do it, and when you fail to meet the expectations you have set, it crushes not your mind, but your heart into a million shattered pieces. Worse, it leaves you there... alone... to pick up those "worthy" pieces for you to try again.
And now comes the point of how i brag about the power of the heart and its ability to influence the mind... to me its utter nonsense. I chose to stand the side where the mind has such an amazing talent to overrule the powers of the heart and that is oblivion or simply put, mind-fucking. Once your mind master this talent, you will be able to block out unnecessary feelings such as sadness and disappointment and feel absolutely carefree from unnecessary stress that do not benefit you in life.
Try it, you might love it.
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